It was funny when we were given a box of my father's things to split up after he passed away. We all poked around the box, commenting on old war pins and some papers and then all looked at each other. Nobody aggressively was like, "I want this...." In fact, just the opposite. We all waited to see if another had a strong desire for something. Slowly it would come out as "well, if nobody else is interested in this pin, I wouldn't mind having that...." Lots of qualifiers and willingness to give deference to someone with a strong desire. Very civil. I know lots of families that can't do that.
We are basically introverts. We can mingle and hold conversations when we need to, but you'll often find us hanging back and just observing the action around us because we are also Watchers. We don't miss a trick. Our humor is very dry and pretty acerbic. We're all conscientious and dependable (ho hum). And we are all great sleepers. That's actually what got me thinking of the ways we are alike. I came across this photo of my brother Jeremy sleeping. He is arguably the best sleeper of all. In fact, the family photo albums is full of pictures of him sleeping in some pretty unusual and uncomfortable places, always with his blanket. There are worse traits than being a great sleeper!